Friday, January 11, 2008

Part 1: Rags to Riches: Money That Comes with Pain

I went home early today and was intrigued by the TV guide listing for the Oprah Show today. I went to the web and found some interesting food for thought. The interviews began...

Person 1--Began a business and became an instant success. Got into drugs to make her feel like part of the "in" rich crowd. Lost her husband, children, business. Ended up homeless, imprisoned, and eventually in rehab.

Couple 2--Won the lottery. Got taken advantage of by friends. Had to create their own "witness protection program" by going incognito and beginning a new life where no one knew them.

Person 3--Plagued by guilt, she blew a large lawsuit that came from her father's inheritance.

Person 4--Story courtesy of Oprah:
In a controversial Showtime documentary, Reversal of Fortune by filmmaker Wayne Powers, cameras follow Ted Rodrigue, a 45-year-old who has been periodically homeless for the last 20 years. Wayne tells Ted his film is about what's it's like to be homeless, but there's more planned for Ted's story on film.

One day, Ted headed for the dumpster to search for bottles and cans, which he recycled for money. There he found a briefcase containing $100,000 in cash—placed there by Wayne.

While Ted received financial counseling to deal with his influx of money, his old habits died hard. Ted got a room but continued to sleep on the floor. He still collected cans and bottles, the primary way he'd survived for years. Ted also spread his wealth around—he says he paid off friends' debt, bought a friend a new car and himself a truck that cost $34,084.89. He also got married.

Ted says he not only spent or gave away all $100,000, he actually owes more money now than he did before. "I thought it would erase all my problems. I thought I would never be homeless again," he says. "But, like I said, I made a couple of bad choices."

...his marriage—which ended, he says, when his wife left him as soon as the cash ran out.

"It was a frustrating process, in a way, because I think that there were a lot of opportunities sent Ted's way," Wayne says. "And while you're with someone, and the closer you get to them, and the more that you kind of root for them and understand them, the more frustrating it gets when those opportunities are passed by. I think that it shows that, from a personal story, people that are homeless, there are certain demons inside them. … I think alcoholism plays a part of that. I learned that in providing somebody with the necessities to be able to turn their life around, a car, a telephone, a roof above their head, a driver's license, all the things that we hear is what somebody needs to be able to turn their life around, it still, unfortunately, in this particular case, was not enough."

Back living on the street, Ted says, "I'm not happy, but I'm contented."

"Godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out."
-1 Timothy 6:6

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At January 13, 2008 12:57 PM , Blogger Linda said...

Interesting. Do you think that it's for lack of wisdom that those with instant wealth so often stumble? I wonder how many people reading this post think, "I would never do that." I did. (Blush.)

 
At January 13, 2008 9:24 PM , Blogger Praise and Coffee said...

Wow, that's really something. Very interesting, thanks for posting it.
And thanks for stopping by my blog!
Nice to meet you,
Sue

 
At January 21, 2008 10:48 AM , Blogger Janelle Aker said...

I remember seeing this episode of Oprah. The latter story really upset me, mostly because the outcome was somewhat predicatable. Give anyone, homeless or not, $100,000 cash and expect him not to spend it. I thought it was more of a human-guinea pig experiment.

Someone who has their mind made up on homeless people (in a negitive light) would have had their point proven with that story.

Thanks for posting this Michelle! Also, see you next week!

 
At March 17, 2008 6:25 PM , Blogger Mission Musings said...

Linda, Praise & Coffee, Janelle--

The Bible says, "The Love of Money is the root of all evil." It can be a snare to so many people who achieve "instant wealth."

AA has a great slogan: There but for the grace of God go I.

"It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle, than for a rich man to enter into the kingdom of God." -Matt 19:24

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