Shacking Up or Shackled?

Tonight I had to bar someone from the building. You'd think this would get easier by now. But, as I sit here in the dark stillness of a quiet office, head in hands, I feel shaken. Saddened.

I told this couple that their living in sin was a bad example for our residents and until they chose a more Biblical way, which is, not having sex before marriage, they were not welcome in our building anymore, except to talk to one of the Directors for counselling.

Why do people choose to gratify their own selfish desires and lusts, even at the extent of cutting themselves off from the people who love and support them the most?

I told them I loved them and sent them on their way.